How to be a Leader in the
Church
Ian Mackervoy
Words in boxes are from the Bible.
A word list at the end explains words with a *star by them.
About this letter
The record in the book of
Acts ends with the *apostle Paul in prison in *Rome. That was about AD 60 and
he was there for two years. It seems that after that he was free for a time.
After he came out of prison,
he asked Timothy to stay in *Ephesus (1 Timothy 1:3). He then went to
*Macedonia. While he was there, he wrote this first letter to Timothy. We do
not know whether Paul visited *Ephesus at this time.
Timothy was the son of a
*Gentile father and a *Jewish mother. His mother, Eunice, and grandmother,
Lois, both believed the *gospel of Christ (2 Timothy 1:5). They and Timothy
probably became Christians when Paul first went to the town called Lystra (Acts
14). All the Christians in Lystra and in the church in the town called Iconium
spoke well about Timothy.
When Paul came the second
time to Lystra, he asked Timothy to join his team (Acts 16:1-3). Timothy became
a close friend and helper of Paul. He went with Paul as he travelled to many
places. Paul spoke about him as his own son in the *faith.
Now he was the leader of the
church in *Ephesus. Paul writes this letter to him to encourage him in the task
of leading that church. He gives Timothy a lot of advice both for the
Christians in the church and for himself.
There were some problems
there, with some people who were teaching wrong things. Paul told Timothy to
sort out that problem (1 Timothy 1:3). He must stop these people from doing it.
Paul tells Timothy how to
select the *elders and *deacons. He writes about the roles of men and women. He
speaks about the care of widows. He tells Timothy how slaves ought to serve. He
speaks to the rich persons. And he warns them about the dangers that come with
wealth. He tells Timothy how he should take care of himself. And he tells him
how to be a good leader.
The plan of the letter
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Greetings from Paul to
Timothy
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1:1-2
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False teachers at *Ephesus
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1:3-7
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The purpose of the law
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1:8-11
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Paul and the *gospel
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1:12-17
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*Faith and conscience
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1:18-20
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Prayer for all people
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2:1-4
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One God and one way to him
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2:5-7
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Instructions to men and
women
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2:8-15
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What an *elder must be like
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3:1-7
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What a *deacon must be like
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3:8-13
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The church of the God who
lives
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3:14-16
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Warning against false
teachers
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4:1-5
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How to guard against what
is false
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4:6-16
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About personal attitudes
and relations
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5:1-2
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Care of widows
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5:3-16
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Honour and responsibility
of *elders
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5:17-25
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Servants and masters
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6:1-2
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More about false teachers
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6:3-5
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Dangers of wealth
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6:6-10
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Instructions to Timothy
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6:11-16
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Advice to wealthy persons
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6:17-19
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Final appeal to Timothy
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6:20-21
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Chapter One
Greetings from Paul to Timothy (1:1-2)
v1 This is from Paul. God, who saves us, made me an
*apostle of Christ Jesus. The *Lord Jesus, who is our hope, also made me an
*apostle. v2 This letter is to Timothy. Timothy, you are a true child in
the *faith. May God the Father and Christ Jesus our *Lord give you *grace,
*mercy, and *peace.
Verse 1 Paul was a *Jew but
from birth he was also a citizen of *Rome (Acts 22:27-28). His *Jewish name was
Saul. But, because God sent him to work with the *Gentiles, he used his *Roman
name of Paul (Acts 13:9). Paul was an *apostle of Christ Jesus. That is, the
*Lord Jesus had sent him to do his work. Paul did not choose to be an *apostle
but it was a command from God.
Paul speaks here about his
role as an *apostle. This is to show that he has authority from the *Lord for
what he is writing. Timothy did not need Paul to write that he was an *apostle.
He knew Paul well and had worked with him for some time. Rather, it was to help
Timothy, as he had to deal with the arguments of false teachers. It may be that
Paul intended Timothy to read this letter to the Christians.
It is not usual in the *New
Testament to speak about God who saves. It is more normal to speak about the
*Lord Jesus as the one who saves. But God as well as Christ is the source of
*salvation. Our hope is in Christ Jesus. This clearly links the *Lord Jesus
with God in the process of our *salvation. We have the hope of *salvation in
Christ Jesus. This hope is not something about which there is a doubt. Hope
means to be sure that something will happen at a future date.
Verse 2 The letter is from
Paul to Timothy. Paul thinks about him as his own child in the *faith. This
shows that they had a love and trust for each other. Timothy probably came to
trust in the *Lord Jesus through Paul. Paul refers to him as ?my son whom I
love? (1 Corinthians 4:17). He says, ?Timothy has proved himself. He has served
with me in the work of the *gospel as a son with his father? (Philippians
2:22).
In this greeting, Paul asks
God the Father and Christ Jesus our *Lord to bless Timothy. He asks for three
things for him from God. They are *grace, *mercy and *peace. In all of his
earlier letters Paul asks the *Lord to bless with *grace and *peace. Here and
in the second letter to Timothy he adds *mercy.
Grace is a favourite word
with Paul. He uses it almost 100 times in those letters of his that we have. It
means the benefits that God gives to those whom he loves. No one deserves them.
So, grace is God blessing those who do not deserve it.
Mercy is to give help to
those who are in need. As with *grace, it has nothing to do with what a person
deserves. It comes from the love and kindness of the person who gives help. Paul
could see that Timothy was in need of help from God. Perhaps he asked for help
because Timothy was often ill (1 Timothy 5:23). Or perhaps it was because of
the problems that Timothy was having in *Ephesus.
In all the problems that
troubled Timothy, Paul asks God to give him *peace. This *peace was to be in
the heart and mind rather than the removal of the problems. This *peace will
keep Timothy. Then all the difficulties that he has will not upset his trust in
the *Lord.
False teachers at *Ephesus (1:3-7)
v3 When I went to *Macedonia, I urged you to stay
on in *Ephesus. Some people there are teaching what is false. And you must
order them to stop. v4 Tell them to stop wasting their time on false
stories and long lists of *ancestors. These things cause arguments. And they do
not help people to trust and to serve God. v5 The purpose of this order
is to produce love. This love comes from a clean heart, a good conscience and
sincere *faith. v6 Some people have turned away from these and have lost
their way in foolish talk. v7 They want to be teachers of the law of
God. But they do not know what they are talking about. Nor do they understand
the things that they declare.
Verse 3 We believe that Paul
wrote this some time after the close of the book of Acts. Paul had been in
prison for a couple of years in *Rome. Then he may have visited *Ephesus and
left Timothy there. Timothy could have been in *Ephesus already or Paul may
have sent him there. Paul knew that there were problems in that church. While
he went on to visit *Macedonia, he asked Timothy to stay in *Ephesus as the leader
of the church.
There were people in *Ephesus
who taught different things. What they said did not agree with the truth. They
confused the Christians with their strange ideas.
Timothy should be in control
of this church. By nature, he is a shy and quiet man. So, Paul tells him to
exercise that control. He must not let the false teachers continue to teach. He
must order them to stop.
Verse 4 The trouble with the
false teachers was not that they were teaching against the truth. They told
stories that had nothing to do with the truth. They taught as fact theories
that came from these stories. They argued about claims based on who their
*ancestors were. They made long lists of their *ancestors to prove that they
were important. Such stories and claims create a lot of talking but no good
results. They are of no use and are just a waste of time. They cause arguments
that have no purpose. They do nothing for the work of God. They are a problem
rather than a help to those who serve the *Lord.
Timothy had to tell them to
stop paying attention to these stories and claims. Instead of these vain
things, they should learn the truth. The truth would lead them to greater
*faith in God. They should put their trust in the *Lord and do what he wants.
Verse 5 The purpose of the
order or command is to cause love to grow. This is why the false teachers had
to stop. What they were doing caused confusion rather than love. The command in
this verse means more than to stop the false teachers. The command is the truth
that Timothy has to teach. This should lead to an increase in love among those
who believe. They should love God and each other more. This agrees with what
the *Lord Jesus taught (Matthew 22:37-40). He said that the first command is
that we should love the *Lord our God. We should do this with all of our mind,
heart and *soul. The next command is that we should love other people.
The *apostle makes clear the
source of this love. It comes out of a clean heart, a good conscience and
sincere *faith.
In the Bible, the heart is
the centre of our being. It is from the heart that we have good or bad
thoughts. These cause us to perform good or bad actions. The heart must be
clean for love to flow from it. It has to be pure with good thoughts and
actions. Only God can make the heart clean and put real love in it. He will
take away all that is wrong in our hearts. He will do this as we confess our
*sins.
Conscience is the knowledge
of what is right or wrong in our actions and attitudes. The consciences of some
people can be hard and damaged. Their consciences can be dead as if burnt with
a hot iron (1 Timothy 4:2). For these, the knowledge of good or evil is not
sure. A good conscience is one that accepts the truth as its standard. It
informs the mind as to what is false or evil. We need to keep our consciences
good. We do this as we accept the truth of God?s word. And we ask the *Lord to
take away all that is wrong. To have a good conscience is to know that God
accepts us as clean from all *sin.
*Faith has to be sincere.
That means that it must be real and genuine. We can fool people into thinking
that we have *faith but we cannot fool God. As we trust God, he puts his love
in us. And then we can love him.
Verse 6 Some people at
*Ephesus had turned away from the truth of God?s word. They had followed their
own ideas. And so, they did not do what the Bible teaches. They failed to have
that love which comes from a clean heart, a good conscience and real *faith.
They talked a lot, but said nothing of real value. Their teaching was just vain
words that were of no use at all.
Verse 7 These false teachers
had wanted to be teachers of the law. The law here means the laws that God gave
to Moses. They are in the first five books of the *Old Testament. The teacher
was very important in those days. They wanted to be important and they wanted
the Christians to respect them. But they did not know what the law said. They
did not understand the principles of the law that they claimed to teach. What
they taught with such confidence was in error. What they said was not correct
and it produced no good results.
The purpose of the law (1:8-11)
v8 Now we know that the law is good. It is good if
a person uses it properly. v9 We also know that the law is not there for
good people. It is for those who do what is wrong. And it is for those who do
not obey it. It is for those who do not respect God. And it is for those who
*sin. It is for those who do not believe in God or who speak against him. Then
it is for those who kill their fathers and mothers or who murder. v10
The law is there for those who have wrong sex, including sex with children. It
is for those who make slaves of people. It is for those who tell lies. And it
is for those who declare what is false. It is for all that is against good and
right instruction. v11 All of this agrees with the wonderful *gospel of
the great God. He has given to me the task of declaring this good news.
Verse 8 The problem was not
that there was anything wrong with the law. The law itself is good because God
gave it. The problem was with the false teachers who used it wrongly. They were
using it to support their own ideas. The use of the law must be for its proper
purpose. This purpose is to teach people how they should live. It shows them
where they have gone wrong.
Verses 9-10 The purpose of
all law is to show us when we do wrong things. So law is not for good persons
but for those who are bad. We need the law to give us the rules of behaviour by
which we must live. By the law, the judge decides whether a person is good or
bad. The law gives the rules for punishing those whom it finds to be guilty.
Paul then gives a list of the
kinds of persons for whom we have the law. He follows the pattern of the ten
commands that God gave to Moses (Exodus 20:1-17). He starts with three pairs of
wrong doing which are against the first four commands. These are *sins against
God. We should love God. But these people do not obey him or respect him. Some
do not believe in him while other people speak against him. The rest of these
two verses list the kinds of *sins that are against other people. The list does
not describe all that is wrong. But the final sentence does cover all that is
not good. All those acts that are against a right understanding of the Bible
and of the law are *sin.
Verse 11 The right use of the
law and of the Bible is part of the *gospel. The *gospel shows us some of the
*glory of God. The law can only show that people are *sinners. But the *gospel
shows us the power, goodness and love of God. By the *Lord Jesus, God can make
us clean from our *sins. By the *Lord Jesus, we can know God.
God and the *Lord Jesus sent
Paul to declare this *gospel. This *gospel is good news because it gives us a
way of escape from *sin.
Paul and the *gospel (1:12-17)
v12 I thank Christ Jesus our *Lord who has given me
the strength for this. He considered that he could trust me. And so he called
me to this work. v13 In the past, I spoke evil about Christ. And I
attacked and insulted him. But I did not know what I was doing. And so he had
pity on me. At that time, I did not believe in him. v14 The *Lord poured
out so much kindness upon me with the *faith and love that are in Christ Jesus.
v15 Christ Jesus came into the world to save *sinners and I am the worst
of them. This is a true statement. And we should accept and believe it. v16
I am the worst *sinner. But for that very reason he had pity on me. So that
first in me, Christ Jesus could show his patience. This is a pattern for all
those who would believe in him. They would believe in him for the life that
never dies. v17 To the king of all time be honour. He never changes, and
we cannot see him. To him who alone is God be honour and *glory for all the
ages to come. *Amen.
Verse 12 The task that the
*Lord had given to Paul was a big one. He could not do it on his own. He
thanked the *Lord for the support that he had received from him. He had to
depend on the strength that the *Lord Jesus gave to him.
Paul is looking back to his
experience on the road to Damascus city (Acts 9). He was on his way to attack the
Christians there. Up to that time, Paul denied that Jesus could be either
*Messiah or the *Lord. But the *Lord Jesus Christ met him and so Paul believed
in him. From that time, the *Lord Jesus trusted Paul and sent him to declare
the *gospel. Paul was astonished at this and he was so grateful to the *Lord
for it.
Verse 13 Saul (Paul) was a
*Jew. He was eager to be the best one in the religion of the *Jews. He saw
those who trusted in Jesus as a danger to his religion. He spoke against Jesus.
And he denied that he was the Christ. Paul was convinced about something: He
had to destroy all who confessed Jesus. That means ?said that he was the Christ
(*Messiah). (See Acts 8:3; 9:1-2.) He was a cruel man. He dragged them from
their homes and sent them to prison.
Paul was sincere. He believed
that he served God by doing this. He did not know that what he was doing was
wrong. He thought that it was his duty to oppose Jesus. He did not believe that
Jesus was the *Lord and the Christ. But when Jesus met him, Paul was convinced.
Then the *Lord Jesus Christ showed *mercy to him. And he forgave Paul for all
that he had done.
Verse 14 It was more than
*mercy that Paul received from God. The kindness of the *Lord was like a flood
of water poured over him. He received *faith to believe and trust in the *Lord
Jesus. As he received the love of God into his life, so he was able to love the
*Lord as well. He once hated the Christians but now he loved them.
Verse 15 Here is the heart of
the *gospel of Christ Jesus. He came into the world to save *sinners. Jesus
himself said, ?The Son of Man came to find and to save what was lost? (Luke
19:10). This is the essential base on which all of the Christian life rests. We
must believe it and accept it. We must trust in Jesus and what he has done for
us.
Jesus was God but he came as
a human being into this world. He came for a purpose. That purpose was to
rescue us from our *sins. He took all our *sins to himself. He paid the price
for them when he died. He was so great that God raised him from the dead. Now
all who trust him and confess their *sins are free from their *sins. The *Lord
will give them life with him. This is the life that will never die.
Paul felt that of all
*sinners he was the worst. This was because he had attacked the Christians with
such cruelty. The *Lord forgave Paul for all his *sins. But Paul still says
that he is a *sinner. He is a *sinner whom God, in his *grace, has saved. God has
saved him because of his trust in Christ.
Verse 16 Paul was so bad but
the *Lord still had pity on him. The *Lord did not punish Paul, as he deserved.
But he was patient with him. He met Paul on the road. And he showed him what he
ought to do. Then Paul believed in the *Lord Jesus.
Paul was not the first to
believe in Christ but his was the most astonishing change. He had been the
worst of *sinners. But now he was a leader in the church and an *apostle. Such
a change was all due to the patience of the *Lord. All who believe in Christ
have a new kind of life. They change as Paul did. Paul?s life was now a
powerful example of the *grace of God. He sees his own experience as the
pattern of what Christ can do. He does it in the lives of all who believe in him.
They will be what God wants them to be. And so they will be truly alive.
Verse 17 As Paul thinks about
what he has written, he praises the *Lord.
God is the great king above
all other kings. He governs all the ages from the *creation of the world to the
end of time. He is in absolute control of all things.
God is always the same
because he never changes. As he was, he is and always will be. He is not human
as we are. And he can never decrease or die. He is the source of all life and
he is the living one.
We cannot see him. This is
because he is so far above what we can understand. He lives in a light to which
we cannot approach. No human person has seen or can see him. We can only know
him to the extent to which he shows himself to us. He has done this by sending
the *Lord Jesus Christ. He sent him to show us what he is like.
All honour and *glory is due
to him who is the only God. There are many gods but only one true God. Through
all the ages to come, praise is due to him.
*Faith and conscience (1:18-20)
v18 Timothy, my son, I am giving you some
instructions. These agree with the *prophecies that spoke about you. Do what I
teach you. If you do, you will achieve like a good soldier in the battle. v19
Make sure that you keep your *faith and a good conscience. Some people have not
listened to their conscience and so they have ruined their *faith. v20
Among them are Hymenaeus and Alexander. I have given these men to *Satan, so
that they may learn not to say bad things about God.
Verse 18 Paul, as the older
man, is telling his ?son? what he must do. ?Son? here means that Paul told
Timothy about Jesus. This refers back to verses 3-5, where he told Timothy to
stop the false teachers and to teach the truth. It also looks forward to what
Paul is about to write.
When Timothy first went with
Paul (Acts 16:3), the leaders of his church prayed for him. As they prayed the
*Lord gave them words to speak to Timothy. These words were the *prophecies.
They showed what God wanted Timothy to be and to do. What Paul is now telling
Timothy to do agrees with those prophecies.
Both the *prophecies and what
Paul told him were to encourage Timothy to be strong. The Christian life is
like a war. There are battles to be won and fights to be fought. By doing what
the *prophecies and Paul said, Timothy would fight well.
Verse 19 Paul is eager that
Timothy should continue to trust God. He wants Timothy to have a good
conscience. That conscience will help to keep Timothy from doing bad things. To
fight a good fight these two, trust and a clear conscience, are essential.
Some people have refused to
act as their consciences showed them. They have done what they know to be
wrong. This has had a damaging effect on their trust in God. It is like a ship
that hits the rock. The ship sinks. So they have ruined their *faith.
Verse 20 As a warning, Paul
names two men who have done bad things. They had ruined their *faith. These are
Hymenaeus and Alexander. Hymenaeus had become a false teacher (2 Timothy 2:17).
Alexander could be the man who made things from copper in *Ephesus. If so, he
caused Paul a lot of trouble (2 Timothy 4:14).
Both of these men had spoken
against the *Lord and against the truth of the *gospel. Paul handed these two
men to *Satan. This was an act of discipline for a person who would not *repent
of *sin. Paul and the leaders put them out of the church.
The purpose of this severe
act was that they might *repent. By this, they might learn not to speak against
God or against the truth.
Chapter Two
Prayer for all people (2:1-4)
v1 First of all, I urge you to pray for all people.
Talk to God about them. Ask God to help and bless them, and thank him for each
of them. v2 Pray for kings and all who are in authority. Then we may
live calm and quiet lives. Do this so that we may respect God. And we may be
good and honest in all that we do. v3 This is good. And it pleases God
who saves us. v4 He wants to save every person. And he wants them all to
know the truth.
Verse 1 When Christians meet
together as a church, they should pray. This is most important. Paul urges them
to pray for all people. He uses four different words in this verse. These words
help to show what this prayer means.
The first of these words
means to make requests to God to meet needs. This is when we desire God to do
something to help. We see the needs of people. Then we desire that God will
meet their needs. We should pray for them.
Then there is the usual word
that is prayer to God. We bring to God all the things that trouble us. And then
we ask him to guide us. We think about other people. Then we ask God to help us
to know what is right. And we ask him to help us to know what we should do. We
ask God for his general blessing and care for the people. We talk to God about
them.
The third word means to have
a conversation with God and to make an appeal to him. The *Lord Jesus gives us
the confidence to come to God and to talk with him. We can be like the agents
for other people and come to God with an appeal on their behalf. We ask God to
help and bless them.
The last word means to thank
God. We must always thank God. We thank him for all people. We thank him for
all that he has done. Thank him for each of those for whom we have prayed.
They should pray in this
manner for all people. He is not asking them to pray for everyone in the world.
That would not be possible for them to do. He means that they should pray for
all kinds of people. They should pray for the people that they know. And they
should pray for the people about whom they know.
Verse 2 They should pray for
all who lead in their society. At that time, it would have been for the
*emperor in *Rome and all the minor rulers. The *emperor was Nero, who was a
very cruel man. Christians should pray for all those who govern them. They
should pray for them, whether they are good or bad.
What the rulers do and say
will affect the lives of all the people. The purpose in praying for them is
that they will rule well. The prayer is that all that they do will be for the
good of the people.
The Christians should pray
that the rulers would allow them to live in *peace. The reason for this desire
is so that they can be free to *worship and serve God. They want to be able to
live good and honest lives. They want to be at *peace with all the people. They
want to be able to share what they believe with other people.
Verses 3-4 It is a good thing
to pray for the people and for the rulers. It is right for Christians to care
enough to pray to God for them. More than that, such prayers are pleasing to
God. God saves from *sin all those who have come to him through the *Lord
Jesus. He desires that all people should come to him. So, as Christians want
the same thing, it will please the *Lord.
God wants to save all sorts
of people, including those who lead, from the effects of their *sin. He desires
that they would come to know the truth. The truth of God will deliver them from
all error.
One God and one way to him (2:5-7)
v5 Now there is one God. There is only one person
who can make *peace between God and people. He is Jesus Christ who became a man
for this purpose. v6 He gave himself to die on behalf of all people, and
God showed us this at the right time. v7 God made me an *apostle so that
I should *preach this good news. I am telling the truth; I am not lying. He
sent me to teach the nations in *faith and truth.
Verse 5 People may believe in
many gods but there is only one real God. Many believe that there is only one
God. But they do not know him. People can only know God by coming to him
through the *Lord Jesus Christ.
The *Lord Jesus is the only
one who can bring people and God together. To do this he had to be the agent
for both God and people. Jesus Christ is God. And he came to show us what God
was like. He became a man so that he could take us to God. The *Lord Jesus had
to deal with all that separated us from God. He took the *sins of all people
and died on their behalf. By this, he made *peace and is now able to bring
people to God.
Verse 6 All people have done
what is wrong. There is no person who has not *sinned. The effect of this was
to make all people to become like slaves to *sin. The *Lord Jesus gave himself
as the price to free people from *sin. He alone was perfect and has not
*sinned. But he took the punishment of all our *sins when he died. He suffered
instead of and on behalf of us all. Those who accept that he died for them are
set free from their *sins.
God sent his Son Jesus Christ
at the time that he appointed. In the plan of God, the *Lord Jesus died for all
people. This is what he has shown us. And this is the true *gospel.
Verse 7 God called Paul to be
an *apostle of the *Lord Jesus. God sent him to declare this *gospel to all
people, both *Jews and *Gentiles. It seems that some of those in *Ephesus had
doubted the authority of Paul. Therefore, he insists that he is not lying. It
is true that God has appointed him an *apostle.
He did not only *preach the
*gospel. God also sent him to teach the *Gentiles. He explained to them what is
true. And he tried to lead them to the *Lord. He taught them what Christians
believe. And he taught them how they should live.
Instructions to men and women (2:8-15)
v8 I want the men to pray in every place. Let them
lift up their hands to God. They should be clean from *sin; they should not be
angry or doubting. v9 I would like women to wear modest and sensible
clothes. They should not do their hair in odd styles. They should not put on
much gold and precious stones, or wear expensive clothes. v10 Rather,
their charm should be in good works. This is right for women who say that they
believe in God. v11 They should learn as they listen, quietly and
humbly, to those who teach them. v12 I would not allow them to teach.
And I would not allow them to tell men what to do. They should be calm and
quiet. v13 This is because God made Adam first. And then he made Eve. v14
The enemy did not fool Adam. But Eve believed his lies and *sinned. v15
God will save the woman through the birth of children. That is if women trust
and love him and are holy and modest.
Verse 8 Paul writes here
about prayer in the public *worship of the Christians. The women had to keep
quiet in the church meetings. So he urges the men to pray. In every place where
the Christians meet, the men should pray.
When they pray in the church
meeting, they should lift up their hands. They lift them up to God. But this
act and their prayers have no value if they are not clean (morally good) in
their minds. They cannot really pray unless their lives are good.
There must be a unity in the
church. There can be no anger between the members. They must settle all such
problems before they pray. They must not argue among themselves. And they must
believe that God will hear their prayers.
Verse 9 Paul now talks about
how the women should behave in the church meetings. They come together to meet
with and *worship the *Lord. They too should pray but they should not pray
aloud.
Women should be modest in
both their attitude and in their dress. They should not dress or wear things to
attract attention to them. The centre of attention should be the *Lord. So they
should be modest in their appearance. This does not mean that the women should
be dull and not attractive. But they should not display their wealth or beauty.
Paul is writing about the excess and the effect of these things.
Verse 10 The women should
make themselves attractive by what they do. Not by what they wear. Their lives
are more important than the clothes that they put on. Christian women should do
good things because they trust in God.
Verse 11 When the *Jews came
for *worship, the women had to be silent. Among the *Gentiles, this was not
always so. Paul ruled that the women should be quiet. When they came to the
meetings, they should be under the authority of the men who taught. They had to
listen to them and learn from them.
Verse 12 Paul would not
permit a woman to teach in the public meetings of the church. He is not saying
that there is no place for a woman to teach. But the task of teaching in the
church belonged to the men. For a woman to teach men would be to take the
authority from them. The women should keep quiet in the church meetings.
Verses 13-14 The reason why
the man should be the leader over the woman is that God made the man first.
After this, he made the woman to be a helper for the man (Genesis 2:20-23). It
is not that men are superior to women. They are equal before God. But they are
not the same and they have different roles in society. Men and women are equal
partners but one must take the lead. The man should take that role for the
benefit of both of them.
Paul then looks at the story
of the first *sin (Genesis 3:1-7). The woman listened to the lies that *Satan
told her. She believed what he said. And so she did not obey God. She took and
ate of the fruit. But God had said they must not eat that fruit. She gave some
of it to the man and he ate it. The man did not accept the lies of *Satan. He
decided to *sin when the woman offered the fruit to him.
This is an example of Eve
taking the role that Adam had. He was wrong because he listened to the voice of
his wife (Genesis 3:17). There is a danger when men or women take on the wrong
roles.
Verse 15 Women should not try
to take the role that God has given to men. The role that he talks about here is to
teach in the church meeting. They have other roles that men cannot have. One of
those roles is to have children.
After the fall into *sin, God
told Eve that she would be in pain as she gave birth to children. Eve is the
subject of the first part of this verse. She had *sinned but God gave the
promise of *salvation. He would send the Christ (*Messiah) to be born of a
woman. So, through the birth of Jesus to Mary, God kept his promise. God will
save women if they continue to trust in him and love him. They should be pure,
holy and modest.
Some people take this verse
as a promise that women will be safe as they give birth. But they must have the
right attitude toward God. They must trust him and love him. They must be pure,
holy and modest.
This verse does not mean that
having children is the method by which God will save women. That would make
their *salvation to depend on their works. But *salvation comes by the gift of
God and we receive it by *faith. God will not save women because they give
birth to children. He saves them as they *repent and believe the *gospel.
Chapter Three
What an *elder must be like (3:1-7)
v1 Anyone who aims to be a leader in the church
desires a good task. That is true. v2 But a church leader must be
without fault. He must not have more than one wife. He must not drink too much
but he should be sensible and well organised. He should be ready to give a
welcome to strangers and he must be able to teach. v3 A leader must not
drink to excess and should not quarrel or fight. Instead, he must be kind and
gentle and he must not love money. v4 He must lead his own family well.
And his children must obey him and respect him. v5 If a man does not
know how to lead his own family, he is not able to take care of the church of
God. v6 A new Christian should not be a leader. If he is, he might be
proud. And then he could fall into the punishment of the devil. v7 A
leader must have earned the respect of those who are not Christians. Then the
devil will not be able to trap him and cause him shame.
Verse 1 The task of the
leaders is to look after the affairs of the church. It is their job to take
care of all the members, to teach them and to lead them. It is not an easy task
but it is a noble one. The desire must be for the good of the church and not
for selfish reasons.
Verse 2 In verses 2 to 7,
Paul lists the qualities that a man must have to be a church leader. Paul
taught here that the work of a leader in the church was for men rather than women.
When Paul was writing, the leaders were always men.
The local churches each had a
group of men who were the leaders. These were the *elders or *bishops. The word
*elder did not mean that they were old. It was a title for a leader. The word
*bishop here is not the same function as *bishops have now in some churches. It
just meant one of the leaders.
A leader must be a good man.
No one should be able to accuse him of doing wrong things. His life must be a
good model for the church members to follow.
If he is a married man, he
must have only one wife. He must be a loyal husband to his wife.
He needs to be able to think
clearly so that he can make wise decisions. He must always be in control of
himself. Those who drink too much tend to lose that control. He should earn the
respect of both Christians and those who are not Christians.
When strangers come to the
church or to his home, he should greet them. He will make sure that they are
looked after and helped. If they need it, he will invite them to stay with him
or with one of the Christians.
The leaders should be ready
and able to teach. What they and other teachers teach to the Christians must be
true. The leaders must make sure that it is. They must be able to argue for the
truth against all that is false.
Verse 3 A leader must not be
a man who drinks a lot. He must never suffer the effects of too much strong
drink. Some of these effects can be to argue and to fight. An *elder must never
get to that state. He must not quarrel or fight.
He must try to understand
people and be kind to them. He should not be too severe with them. His task is
to encourage the Christians to be at *peace and to love each other.
He should not be a leader for
what he can get from it. His desire should be to serve and give himself for the
church members. His aim must not be to gain money or goods for himself. The
love of money is the cause of much evil.
Verses 4-5 To be a leader of
the church a man must lead his own family well. This means that his children
must have a good attitude. Their parents will have taught them how to behave.
So, they respect and obey those who look after them.
It is easier for a man to
control his own family than to lead the church. So, if he does not control his
family, he will not be able to take care of the church. It is the church of
God. And those who lead it should be qualified to do so.
Verse 6 A person who has just
become a Christian should not be a leader in the church. He should first prove
that he has the right qualities for the task. It would take some time and
experience to show that he is ready for this work.
There is a danger that a new
Christian in this job would be proud. Those who are proud will fall as the
devil did. The devil was once good but because of his pride, he became evil.
God opposes the devil and all who are proud. One day God will destroy the devil
(Revelation 20:10). The proud will share the same punishment as the devil.
Verse 7 A leader must have a
very good character. Then those who do not come to the church will respect him.
He will not have success if the people do not trust him. Where the people do
not respect the church leaders, it will spoil the work of the church. It may
stop people from believing the *gospel of the *Lord Jesus Christ. It could be a
cause and a reason for them to oppose the church.
The devil is always trying to
stop the spread of the *gospel. He will use anything that he can to do this. If
there is anything in a leader of the church that he can attack, he will. As a
hunter makes a trap to catch an animal, so he tries to catch the church
leaders. He tempts them to do what he wants. If they do this, it will have a
bad effect on the church.
What a *deacon must be like (3:8-13)
v8 *Deacons also must live good lives and be
sincere. They must not drink too much wine or be greedy for money. v9
They must hold to the truth that God has made known of the *faith with a clean
conscience. v10 They must first prove themselves. Then if there is
nothing against them, they can serve as *deacons. v11 The women must
also live good lives. They should not find fault with people. They should be
sensible and honest in all that they do. v12 A *deacon must have only
one wife. He must manage his children and all who live in his house well. v13
People will respect those who have served well. They can be bold as they speak
about their *faith in Christ Jesus.
Verse 8 The word *deacon
means a servant. But it became a job in the church. While the *elders led, the
*deacons did much of the practical work in the church. There would be a group
of *deacons in each local church. In the time of Paul, these would usually be
men. Like the *elders, they had to have the right qualities for this work.
These were similar to but a little less than those of the *elders.
*Deacons must live good lives
so that people can respect them. They must always speak the truth. They will
not vary what they say. And people will be able to depend on their word. They
must be careful how they live. And they must not drink too much strong drink. They
must be honest in all that they do. The desire for gain for themselves must not
be their aim or the reason for what they do. Their purpose in this work must be
to serve God and the church members.
Verse 9 From the beginning of
time, God planned to send Jesus. When Jesus Christ came, he died to take away
the *sins of us all. God spoke about the coming of Jesus all through the *Old
Testament. But none of the people seemed to understand what he said. They
expected the Christ (*Messiah) to come as a strong king like the kings of the
nations. But he was humble like a servant and died on a cross. Now God showed
to the people what they could not know. God has shown the truth about the *Lord
Jesus Christ to those who believe. This is the centre of the Christian *faith.
God will save from their *sins all those who believe and trust in the *Lord
Jesus. The *deacons must be firm in their belief in this *gospel.
As they maintain this truth,
they must have clean consciences. They must not allow any *sin to spoil their life
with God. If they do *sin, they must *repent. And they must ask God to forgive
them. What they believe must show in how they live.
Verse 10 Those who want to be
*deacons must pass these tests. They must show that they possess these
qualities. There must be no reason why they may not be *deacons. The other
people need to be sure about that. Then the church members or the leaders can
appoint them to do this work.
Verse 11 In the church at
that time, *deacons were usually men. There were women in the church who did
the work of a *deacon. For example, there was Phoebe who was a *deacon in the
church at Cenchrea (Romans 16:1). So the women here are those who take part in
the work of the *deacons. Some of them may have been the wives of *deacons.
Some of them could have been women that the church members had appointed to do
this work.
Just as the *deacons had to
live good lives, so must these women. They must not gossip or find fault with
other people. They will know about things that should be kept private. They
must not talk about these things. People must be able to trust them. They must
not drink too much strong drink. They must be steady and honest in all their
work.
Verse 12 If a *deacon is
married, he must be the husband of one wife. This is the same as for the
*elders. He must be in control of his own family. It is not that he manages the
church. But it shows the character that any who work in the church must have.
Poor control at home would show a weakness that is not good in a *deacon.
Verse 13 Those who serve well
in their duties in the church gain honour for themselves. Such good service
pleases the *Lord. The members of the church will also respect the *deacons who
do their job well. These good *deacons can grow in confidence and in their
trust in the *Lord Jesus Christ. They can be bolder as they speak about what
they believe to other people.
The church of the God who lives (3:14-16)
v14 As I write this letter to you, I hope to come
and see you soon. v15 But if there is a delay, you know how to behave in
the house of God. This house is the church of the living God. And it supports
and defends the truth. v16 We must agree. And we must say that what God
has shown us of our religion is very great.
He came and showed
himself to us as a human being.
The Spirit declared that
he was without fault.
*Angels saw him.
People *preached his
good news to the nations.
People all over the
world believed in him.
God took him up from the
earth to share his *glory.
Verses 14-15 Paul was hoping
to visit Timothy soon. But he wrote this letter just in case there was a delay
in his plans. He wanted the church members to know how they should live. So, he
gave these rules for the leaders and for the members. He wanted them to behave
well when they came together as the church.
The church is not the
building in which they meet. It is all the *believers when they meet to
*worship and serve God. They are the house of God. God is with them. They are
the church of the living God. The strength and the foundation of that church
are in God.
God has trusted Christians
with his truth. Each local church of Christians has a duty to protect that
truth from all that is false. There were some people in *Ephesus who opposed
the truth. And those people taught wrong things. Timothy had to tell them to
stop doing so. The church members must not accept what these people taught.
They must hold on to and spread the truth that is from God.
Verse 16 The secret of true
religion that God has shown to us is great. All must agree with this because
there can be no doubt about it. The secret that he has shown to us is about the
*Lord Jesus Christ. And it is about what he has done. It was a secret because people
did not know God?s plan. He had promised that the Christ would come to save us
from our *sins. All through the *Old Testament, God speaks about the future
when Christ would come. When he came, the Christ had to suffer and die for us.
But nobody understood that. Now we know that the *Lord Jesus has come. He has
done all that God had said that he would do.
The rest of the verse seems
to be from a statement of belief in the church. It may have been part of a
Christian song. There are six lines, each of which is about Christ or his work
on the earth.
1. God, in the person of
Christ, came to us as a man. Christ was always God. But he came to us as a
human being so that we may know him.
2. The *Lord Jesus claimed to
be the Christ (*Messiah) that God had promised to send. He said that he was the
Son of God. He said that he was one with and equal to the Father. He was God.
The Spirit agrees that these claims are true. He declares that Jesus is the Son
of God and that he is perfect. Jesus did not *sin at all. But he took our *sins
when he died on the cross.
The Spirit declared Christ to
be the Son of God with power (Romans 1:4). He proved it in that Jesus Christ
rose again from the dead.
3. *Angels were involved at
times while Jesus lived on the earth. One of them came to those who looked
after the sheep to tell them about his birth (Luke 2:9). They came to Jesus
after the devil had tempted him (Matthew 4:11). An *angel helped him as he
prayed in the garden of Gethsemane (Luke 22:43). An *angel rolled back the stone
from the entrance to the grave when Jesus rose from the dead (Matthew 28:2-7).
The *angel sat on that stone. Some women had come. And the *angel told the
women that Jesus was alive again. Two *angels who were inside the grave spoke
to Mary (John 20:11-13). Later, Jesus left the earth and went up to heaven. Two
*angels were there. And they told the friends of Jesus that he would come again
(Acts 1:10-11).
Therefore, the *angels see
him. They are God?s servants. He sends them to help those who believe in Jesus
(Hebrews 1:14). They see what the *Lord Jesus has done. They look to him as the
ruler in heaven. They praise and *worship him (Hebrews 1:6).
4. As he was leaving the
earth, the *Lord Jesus told his friends to tell the people in all the nations
of the world about him. From that day, Christians have gone to the nations with
the good news of Christ.
5. Where the Christians have
told people the good news of Christ, some have believed it. They have put their
trust in him and become Christians too.
6. The *Lord Jesus went up
from this earth. He entered into the bright light of heaven where God lives.
There he enjoys honour and praise. God has given to him all power to rule in
heaven and over the earth.
Chapter Four
Warning against false teachers (4:1-5)
v1 The Spirit clearly says
that in the last days some people will turn from the *faith. They will follow
the lies of evil *spirits and the things that *demons teach. v2 These
errors come through people who tell lies. Their consciences, which decide
between right and wrong, are dead as if burnt with a hot iron. v3 Such
people teach that it is wrong to marry. And they teach that it is wrong to eat
certain kinds of food. But God created these foods for those who believe in him
to eat. They thank God for what they eat. Those who believe in him know the
truth. v4 All that God has created is good. We are not to refuse
anything that God has made. But we should thank him and receive it. v5
This is because by the word of God and prayer all food is made good and fit to
eat.
Verse 1 Paul turns from
instructions to Timothy and the church members, to give a warning. He talks
about a time when many will turn away from the *Lord. These people said that
they trusted in God. But then they changed their minds. They gave up their *faith
and turned their backs on the *Lord. The Holy Spirit had said that this would
happen in future times.
The last days here means some
time after the Spirit had spoken. It is not just the final period, which is
still to come. The last days here refer to the present, which began with the
coming of Christ. Since the church started, there have been those who said that
they believed. But later, they turned away from the *Lord. The Bible does say
that there will be a time when a large number will turn away. That will be in
the period just before the *Lord Jesus comes again (2 Thessalonians 2:3).
These people stop believing
in the *Lord. This is because they act on lies. They turn away from the truth
and believe lies. They listen to what false teachers say. These lies come from
evil *spirits that lead them away from the truth. They start to accept what
*demons teach.
These *spirits and *demons
are enemies of God and of the *Lord Jesus Christ. Their aim is to make of no
effect the work that the *Lord has done for us. They will do all that they can
to stop people from trusting in Christ. They also try to turn Christians from
their belief in him.
Verse 2 The false teachers
whom the *demons use seem to be good. But they speak lies. They teach things
that do not agree with the truth from God. It may sound good but it is false.
These teachers should have
known the truth but they chose to deny it. They have allowed the *demons to
persuade them that the truth is not right. They have decided to follow and to
teach what is false. This has damaged their consciences. It is as if they have
burned them with a hot iron. They can no longer know what is right or what is
wrong.
Verse 3 Paul mentions two of
the wrong things that these people taught. They forbade people to marry. And they
told them that they must not eat certain foods.
The Bible teaches that
marriage is a good thing. And it is from God. As for the foods, God created
them for us to eat. Christians should know that they can eat all kinds of food.
But they should always thank God for what they eat. They should be grateful to
God for all that he has given to them.
Verses 4-5 God is good and
therefore all that he does is good. He created all things. In the story of the
*creation, at each stage, it says that God saw that it was good (Genesis 1). He
gave all kinds of plants and fruit for food (Genesis 1:29). He told Noah that
every moving thing that lives should be food for him (Genesis 9:3). So, we
should not forbid any kind of food. God is not pleased with us just because we
do not eat certain foods.
We should receive all things
as from God and thank him for them. What God has said and our prayer of thanks
to him make all food fit for us to eat. This teaches us that Christians should
pray before they eat.
How to guard against what is false (4:6-16)
v6 If you advise the brothers and sisters
(Christians) about these things, you will be a good servant of Christ Jesus.
And you will feed yourself on the words of the *faith and of the truth that you
have followed. v7 Avoid those wrong or silly stories that have nothing
to do with God. Rather, work hard to be what God wants you to be. v8 If
you train your body you will get some small benefit. But it is better to train
to be what God wants you to be. That will benefit you in every way. That has
the promise of life now and of the life that is to come. v9 These words
are true. And you should accept and believe them. v10 We struggle and
work hard, because we have set our hope in the living God. He is the one who
can save all people. And he will save all those who believe in him. v11
Order and teach these things. v12 Do not let anyone fail to respect you
because you are young. But you must be a good example to those who believe.
Prove your worth by what you say and do. Show it by your love, *faith, and good
living. v13 Until I come, read the *scriptures. Read them when you meet.
Urge the Christians to do what it says. And teach them the truth. v14
You must not fail to use the gift that the Holy Spirit gave to you through
*prophecy. The *elders also agreed with it as they laid their hands on you. v15
Be careful to do these things. Work hard at them so that everyone can see how
well you are doing. v16 Be careful about the way that you live. And be
careful about the things that you teach. You must keep on doing the things that
I have taught you. As a result, by you, God will save both you yourself and
those who listen to you.
Verse 6 Timothy should remind
the Christians of the things about which Paul writes. There was nothing new in
what Paul wrote. They should all have been aware of these things. Timothy
should continue to teach the truth that they have received. Then he will be a
good leader.
He will be a good servant of
Christ Jesus. The *Lord appoints leaders as his servants to serve the church members.
The task of the leaders is not to be bosses as are leaders in the world.
Rather, they should see themselves as those who serve the church members. The
*Lord Jesus said about himself that he was among them as one who serves (Luke
22:27). They and all who believe in Christ should have that same attitude.
Those whom he teaches are the
brothers and sisters. These are the Christians in that place. All who believe
in the *Lord Jesus are children of God. They are members with Paul and Timothy
in the family of God. They should be to each other as brothers and sisters.
Timothy needs to look after
himself by learning all that the *Lord Jesus and the *apostles taught. They are
the words of the *faith. This is because their aim is to bring people to
believe and trust in the *Lord. Food makes the body strong. In the same way, as
Timothy studies these words, he will be stronger in his own belief. He will be
more able to lead and help other Christians.
Timothy has known the truth
since he was a child. He has followed it from his youth. He should continue to
live and grow in that truth.
Verse 7 A good leader must
refuse all that is not true. So many of the stories that people believe in are
a waste of time. They are often not correct and some come from an evil source.
Paul advises Timothy to have nothing to do with such things. They would cause
damage to, rather than help, the work of God.
A person who runs races will
train hard to be as fit as possible. He or she will take off all clothing that
is not needed for the race. In the same way, Paul tells Timothy to work hard
and avoid what he does not need. The aim is not a race but to be ready for the
work of God. He, and all Christians, should aim to become more like the *Lord
Jesus.
Verse 8 It is a good thing to
exercise the body. It helps to keep the body in good health. But its benefits
are only for the short time that we live here on earth. Paul does not say that
we should not exercise the body. But he says that there is much more benefit if
we train to be like the *Lord Jesus. This has benefit for all time and for the
life that is to come.
What God gives has the
promise of life. This is the life that is to come. He gives that life to all
who believe and trust in the *Lord Jesus Christ. So, that life is far more
important than the health of the body. Christ has promised us a different
quality of life now. And it goes on when our body dies. Therefore, it should be
the aim of all Christians to be like Christ. They cannot achieve it now, but
they should work hard towards it. Such effort is well worthwhile because God
will bless it.
Verses 9 The words and the
message that Paul gives are true. This could apply to verse 8 or verse 10 or to
both of them. He urges Timothy to accept what he writes and to believe it.
Verse 10 To be like Christ
has the promise of life. So, Christians work hard and struggle to be like him.
This is not to earn that life because it is a gift from God. They continue to
hope in the God who lives. That is why they work hard. There is no doubt in
this hope. They are sure of that life by their belief and trust in Christ. This
hope gives them the confidence to go on and not to give up.
God, by what the *Lord Jesus
has done, has made it possible for all people to receive the new life. That is
life with him both now and after the death of the body. But they have to
receive it from him. God has given that *salvation to all who trust in Christ.
Verse 11 Timothy should order
and teach these things. Timothy was a shy and quiet man. But Paul tells him to
use his authority as the leader of this church. He must be strong. And he must
order people to do what the *Lord has said. He must teach them the things about
which Paul writes.
Verse 12 As Timothy does give
commands and teach, there may be some who would oppose him. They may claim that
he is still young. He does not have the experience that they would respect.
Timothy must not let this happen. He can overcome this by being mature in all
that he does.
The word young here means a
young man of up to 30 or 40 years of age. Timothy must have been 30 years old
or even a bit older. Many of the *believers at *Ephesus would have been much
older than he was.
Paul urges Timothy to be a
pattern to them of how a Christian should live. He should be careful how he
speaks. And he should be careful about what he says. In all that he does, he
must show true Christian character. What he says and does should show that he
has the basic qualities of the Christian life. The first of these is love. This
is the kind of love that the *Lord has for us. Timothy should speak and act
with love for God and for the Christians whom he leads. Then his words and
works should always show that he believes and trusts in the *Lord. His life
should be morally good before God and the people.
Timothy should live like
this. Then all will see that he is fit to lead. He will prove that his age is
not important. He has the authority to do as Paul urges him to do. He can order
and teach the church members. And he can expect them to accept what he says.
Verse 13 Paul said ?until I
come?. But he did not want Timothy to stop doing these things when he came.
While Paul was absent from *Ephesus, Timothy should continue to do these
things. He writes about the meetings of the church. They should read the
*scriptures. The leader should urge them to obey the *scriptures. A teacher
should teach them about the truth. When the members come together, there should
be those three things.
Timothy should make sure that
he or someone else reads the *scriptures aloud. There would be those there who
could not or did not read the Bible for themselves. All who believe in Christ
should know what the Bible says. That is important. The Bible is God?s word to
his people and through it he speaks to them.
James tells us to do what the
word says. We should not be just those who hear it (James 1:22). As the church
members hear the *scriptures, they should obey them. Timothy, as the leader,
should urge them to obey what God says in the Bible.
The church members need to
understand and know the truth. Timothy has to teach them all that he has learnt
about the word of God and about the Christian *faith.
Verse 14 Timothy had received
a gift from God when the *elders laid their hands on him. This gift was to help
him do the work to which God appointed him. God gave him the gift through
*prophecy. The Holy Spirit had shown one or more persons that he was giving the
gift to Timothy. The *elders who were there agreed that the *prophecy was true.
Paul tells Timothy that he
must not neglect that gift. God gave it for him to use. There are many gifts of
the Holy Spirit. He gives them as he chooses. (See 1 Corinthians 12:4-11.) We
do not know what this gift was. But it was to help Timothy in his life and
work.
The laying on of hands was to
appoint a person to a task. It was to show that the *elders agreed with the
decision to chose him or her. It showed that they believed that the call to do
it was from God. It was to bless and show that they supported that person. The
*elders of the church laid their hands on Timothy.
Verse 15 Timothy must be
careful to do all the things that Paul has written. He must give himself to the
work to which God has called him. Then all will see how he is progressing. They
will see how he grows in his trust in God. And grows in the authority that God
has given to him.
Verse 16 Timothy must give
attention to two things. They are himself and what he teaches.
He needs to be careful about
his own life with the *Lord. He needs to grow in his trust in God and in his
knowledge of God. It is important that he lives a good life. He must continue
to live as Paul has shown him.
He must teach the truth of
God. What he teaches must be true to God?s word. He must always continue to do
and teach what Paul had taught him.
As Timothy does all this, he
will achieve two aims. God will be pleased with what he has done. Also, the
*Lord will rescue from punishment those who believe in what he teaches.
Chapter Five
About personal attitudes and relations (5:1-2)
v1 Do not correct an older man with hard words. But
appeal to him as if he were your father. Correct the younger men as if they
were your own brothers. v2 Behave toward the women in a way. Speak to
the older women as you would speak to your own mother. Talk to the younger
women as if they were your own sisters.
Verses 1-2 Timothy has a duty
to teach the local church members what is true and right. He has to show them
how they should live as Christians. He has to order the false teachers and
those who gossip to stop doing it. He has to correct those who do not obey. And
he has to correct those who do not live in a good way. In all of this, it is
important that he has the right attitude. He must be gentle and kind but firm
with them all.
Where he needs to correct an
older man, he should respect him like a father. He must not be strict and
severe with him. Rather, he should appeal to him. And he should urge him to
change and to do what is right.
Timothy must think of the
younger men as his own brothers. He must not think of himself as better than
them. But he should see them as brothers in the family of God. He should talk
to them and encourage them to trust in the *Lord. And he should encourage them
to live as they should.
He should be as gentle to the
older women as he would be to his own mother. The younger women should be as
his sisters. He must be most careful when he deals with these. He must be sure
that his thoughts and actions are morally good.
Care of widows (5:3-16)
v3 Show respect to the widows who have no one to support
them and look after them. v4 But if a widow has children or
grandchildren, they should learn to serve God and take care of her. They owe it
to her because she once took care of them. As they do this, it pleases God. v5
A widow who is alone, with no one to take care of her, has placed her hope in
God. She continues to pray and ask him for his help night and day. v6
But some widows might live only to please themselves. A widow like that has
died in her heart even while she lives. v7 Give them these instructions,
so that no one will find fault with them. v8 But if any people do not
take care of their relatives, they are against the *faith. This is more true of
those who do not look after their own families. They are worse than someone who
does not have *faith in the *Lord. v9 Do not add a widow to the list of
widows if she is less than 60 years old. She must also have been the wife of
one husband. v10 You should accept only those whom you know do all sorts
of good things. This could be that she brought up children well. She receives
strangers as guests and washes the feet of Christians. She also helps those in
trouble, and does all kinds of good acts. v11 But do not include younger
widows in the list. When their desires make them want to marry again, they may
turn away from Christ. v12 If they do, they will be guilty of breaking
their earlier promise to God. v13 They also learn to waste their time by
going from house to house. They will gossip and find fault with people. And
they will talk about things that they should not talk about. v14 I would
prefer that these widows get married. Then they can have children, and take
care of their homes. This would give our enemies no chance to speak evil about
us. v15 But some of these widows have already turned and gone after
*Satan. v16 But if a Christian woman has widows in her family, she must
take care of them. She must not leave it to the church to do. Then the church
will be able to help widows who are really in need.
Verse 3 Widows need help and
care. Someone has to decide what care should be given. And they must decide who
should give it. The church members must respect those who are widows. Paul
makes a distinction between those who have no one to help them and those who
have. The church should provide for those who have no support.
Verse 4 Children should learn
that they have a duty to look after their parents. This is part of their
Christian *faith. The same applies to grandchildren and to all in the family.
These should supply all that the widow needs. They are responsible for this
care and they should not expect the church to do it.
They have a debt that they
owe to their parents. The support that they give is only what is due to the
widow. Parents give a lot when they bring up children. The support of the widow
is some payment for what she has given in the past.
God wants them to support
their widows. It pleases God when they do it.
Verse 5 A widow who is alone
has no family to look after her. Her only hope for this life and the next is in
God. She trusts God to take care of her and to provide all that she needs. As a
Christian, she has always prayed to the *Lord. She has trusted him in the past
and she still does. Now she continues to pray to him. Every night and morning,
she asks God to help her.
Verse 6 In contrast with the
widow who trusts in God, Paul speaks about another one. This one does not trust
in God or help other people in their need. She lives only to please herself in
the present. She has no thought for the future. She thinks that this is real life.
But she is dead to the life that God gives. The church has no duty to support
her.
Verses 7 Paul now returns to
the subject of those who should look after their widows. Timothy should tell
the relatives to look after their widows. If they do this, no one can blame
them. They are doing what is good and right.
Verse 8 If they do not
provide what their widows need, they fail in their duty. This is more so if the
widow is their mother or their grandmother. The Christian *faith teaches that
they have a duty to care. But they have not obeyed. They are guilty of the *sin
of neglect. It is like turning away from the *Lord. Christians who fail in this
are worse than those who do not trust in God. Even those who do not believe in
the *Lord look after their widows.
Verse 9 Paul has shown what
the families should do for their widows. Now he turns to what the church
members should do. They may provide for those who have no family to support
them.
The church at that time used
to give a promise of support to those who passed some tests. These they put on
an official list. Once they were on the list, the church members would provide
for them for the rest of their lives.
To qualify for the list the
widow must be at least 60 years old. In those days people thought that at that
age, she was an old woman. She would not get married again. She must have no
family. Or, if she had, they did not support her. That could only be if the
family were not Christians. She must have been living with and loyal to her
husband while he was alive.
Verse 10 She must have a good
character and have done good works. Paul lists some of the good works that she
might have done.
It could be that she looked
after children. These may have been her own or other people?s. Maybe they were
children whose parents had died.
When travellers came to the
church or to her house she made them welcome. She took them into her home and
provided for them.
The roads were dusty. And as
the Christians walked, their feet got dirty. When they came into a home, they
needed to wash them. A good hostess would wash the feet of her guests. She was
willing to do this humble task for them.
When anybody was in trouble,
she was there to give what help she could. She would try to meet their needs
and look after them.
She must have done all kinds
of good works. This was how she lived, always doing good things to help other
people. This was the kind of life that she should have lived. Then the church
members could support her.
Verse 11 Paul does not say
that the church should not look after the younger widows. He says that the
church should not add them to the list for which there is the promise of
continued support. These widows do not qualify for the list because of their
age. They are not yet 60 years old.
To be on the list carries
with it a promise to serve Christ in the church in some way. This means that
those on the list are not free to marry. It is quite likely that at some time a
young widow will want to marry again. If she were on the list, her marriage
would break the promise that she had made to Christ. She would not then be
loyal to him because she had promised to give herself to serve him.
Verse 12 If a widow is not on
the list she can get married. Paul says that it would be a good thing if they
did get married (verse 14). But being on the list involves a promise to God.
That means that they would not get married. If they do get married, they break
that promise. They are guilty of turning away from the *Lord.
Verse 13 In the time when
Paul wrote, most of the women had no education. They did not have jobs by which
they could keep themselves. Women should marry. They should have children and
keep the home. When the husband died and the children had left home, they did
not have much to do. There was the danger that these women would be lazy. Worse
still, they might waste their time and that of other women. They would go from
house to house. They would spend their time talking to each other. They would
gossip about other people. And they would talk about things that they should
not talk about. They would get involved in affairs that had nothing to do with
them.
Verse 14 A widow is free to
marry again if she wants to. It would be better for them and the church if they
did marry. They would then be busy again with the tasks of family life. They
might have children and they would look after a husband and a home. They would
not have the time to gossip from house to house.
Those who are against the
church look for reasons to attack it. What the young widows did could give them
an excuse to say bad things about the church. But when they marry there is no
longer a problem.
Paul?s chief aim is to
protect the good name of the church.
Verse 15 Paul shows the
reason for the worry that he has. Some widows had turned aside from the *Lord.
He does not say how many of them were involved. But some of them had left the
church to follow *Satan. They may not have been aware that it was *Satan that
they followed. But that was the truth of the matter.
Verse 16 If there are widows
in their family, the Christians should take care of them. Paul here says that
this is the duty of the women. They may themselves be widows but have the means
to give support. They may be daughters or daughters in law of the widows. They
could be sisters or mothers to the widows. It does not matter what the
relationship is. They should look after them.
It would be wrong to leave
the support of these widows to the church members. No doubt, the church members
would do it if it were necessary. But the church should not have this duty. It
would take time and money. That time and money could be used for those who have
no one to help them.
Honour and responsibility of *elders (5:17-25)
v17 You should respect the *elders who lead well.
They deserve twice as much honour. This is especially true about those who work
hard as they *preach and teach. v18 This is because the *scripture says,
?Do not stop the *ox from eating when you use it to separate the grain?
(Deuteronomy 25:4). It also says, ?The person who works deserves to be paid?
(Luke 10:7). v19 Do not believe a bad report about an *elder unless at
least two or three people say that it is true. v20 As for those who are
*sinning, put them to shame in front of all of the church members. Then the
rest will be afraid. v21 In front of God and Jesus Christ and the holy
*angels, I warn you. And I urge you to obey these rules. You must be fair. And
you must show no prejudice in anything that you do. v22 Do not be in a
hurry to lay hands on anyone for the service of the *Lord. Take no part in the
*sins of other people but keep yourself free from *sin. v23 Do not drink
water only, but drink a little wine. This will be good for you and help with
your frequent stomach problems. v24 The *sins of some people are plain
to see. It is clear to all that they are guilty. But the *sins of other people
are not as clear and we will not know about them until later. v25 It is
the same with good works. Some of these are plain to see now and the rest we
cannot hide for long.
Verse 17 The local churches
each had a group of men who were the leaders. The job of these officials was to
direct the affairs of the church. They were responsible for the work and growth
of the church. These were the *elders.
The members should respect
those who do this job well. They should give to them the honour that they
deserve.
All of the *elders must be
able to teach. But some of them would be more able to do it. The highest honour
should go to those who *preach and teach. To do this well requires a lot of
hard work and study. Those whom they teach should appreciate this.
The church members should
reward the *elders for the work that they do. They should reward them for how
well they do it. This may be in money if the church pays its *elders. Or it may
be in the honour that they give to them.
Verse 18 Then, as they still
do in some countries, the farmer used an *ox to separate the grain from the
crop. They spread the crop over the ground and made the *ox walk on it. As the
*ox walked on the crop the farmer should not stop it from eating some of the
grain. He should not tie up its mouth. It should be free to eat while it
worked.
This was a rule that God gave
to the *Jews in the *Old Testament (Deuteronomy 25:4). This teaches that the
*ox should be able to benefit from its work. So the *elder who does his task
well should benefit from his work.
The *Lord Jesus said that the
person who works deserves to be paid (Luke 10:7; Matthew 10:10). He sent his
*disciples to tell the people the *gospel and to heal the sick. He told them not
to take money or food with them. They should expect those whom they taught to
provide for them. As the *elders work in the church, so the church members
should provide for them. The *elder who works well deserves to live from his
work.
Verse 19 When one person
accuses an *elder, Paul warns Timothy not to act on it. He should not accept it
as true. But if two or three persons say that it is true, he must think about
it. Timothy must decide whether they are right or not.
Verse 20 If the bad report is
true, Timothy must act on it. He must bring the *sin of the *elders to the
whole church. Paul is eager that the *sins of *elders are not hidden. They
should be dealt with in public. The purpose of this is to act as a warning to
the other *elders. The result should be that they and the members would be more
careful not to *sin. They would be afraid of such shame in public.
Verse 21 Paul urges Timothy
to obey what he has said in the last two verses. These things are very important.
And Timothy must do what is right. Paul warns him in a most serious manner. He
says that God, the *Lord Jesus and the *angels are there to see that Timothy
does obey. There might be two or three people who accuse an *elder. Then
Timothy must look at the facts. He must not act on his own opinions. He must
search for what is true. He must not act from prejudice.
Verse 22 To appoint a new
*elder, Timothy and the *elders would put their hands on him. They would lay
hands as they appoint people to any office or task in the church. To lay hands
on them shows that they have the authority to do the task. The leaders put
their hands on a person. This shows that they approve of him or her.
Paul tells Timothy not to be
too quick in laying hands on anyone. He ought first to be sure that the person
is fit for the office. He needs to see that the person has the right qualities.
The person has to prove that he or she is the right person. He has to prove
that he is ready for the task.
Those who lay their hands on
a person are to some extent responsible for them. They are responsible for what
he or she does. If they have made a bad choice, they share in the faults of
that person. They share the blame for the *sins of that person. They take part
in the *sins of other people.
Paul tells Timothy to take
care when he lays hands on other people. If he does it without due care he may
be sharing in their *sin. Timothy must keep himself from *sins, both his own
and other people?s.
Verse 23 Timothy did not have
good health. He was often sick and had a weak stomach. He only drank water but
Paul now tells him to also drink some wine. It may be that poor water was
partly the cause of the stomach problems. Wine would act against the bad
effects of the water. So a little wine would be like a good medicine for the
stomach.
Verse 24 It can be quite
difficult to know whom to appoint to a task in the church. With some people, it
is clear that they are not the right choice. The decision to refuse them is
easy as one can see their *sins. With other people, it is not that simple. They
hide their *sins and they appear to be good persons. It is only later that they
show their true nature. This is why Timothy must not be quick to lay hands on
any person. He must wait until he is sure that they are right.
With some people, we can see
that they are guilty. God will be their judge. With other people, we will not
know that they are guilty. We cannot know what they have done. We cannot know
it until the day when they stand before God.
Verse 25 We can see the *sins
of some people. In the same way, we can see the good that some people do. So,
the choice of some persons for a task in the church can be easy. With other
persons, we may not be able to see how good they are. But in time, we will see
the good that they have done. To delay in the laying on of hands will allow
time to prove who is the right person for the task.
Timothy should not act on
first impressions because these can be false. He should take care. And he
should take the time to be sure about the persons that he appoints.
Chapter Six
Servants and masters (6:1-2)
v1 Those who are slaves must respect and honour
their masters. They should do this so that no one will speak bad things about
the name of God and about what we teach. v2 Some slaves would belong to
masters who believe in Christ. They must not respect them less. Instead, they
should serve them better. This is because those who gain from their work are
Christians. And they love them. Teach these things and urge them to obey.
Verse 1 In the time of Paul
there were many slaves. Many of the first Christians were slaves. Paul teaches
them how they should serve the *Lord and their masters.
Some masters did not believe
in God. To a master like that, the slave was something that he owned. Slaves
were there to do what the master wanted. They had no rights of their own. They
were just tools of the master. Not all masters were bad but many were.
The slaves had to do what
their masters told them. But Christians who were slaves should respect their
masters. And they should give them honour. The masters may not be good but the
slaves should serve them. Their attitude as they do their work should be that
of respect. They should try to do well for their masters.
The reason why the slaves
must serve like this is that they belong to God. What they do shows what they
believe. Their masters will not speak evil about God if the slaves have the
right attitude. But if the slaves do not show their God by their actions, the
masters will not turn to God. They will refuse to accept what the Christians
teach. They will blame the *gospel for the poor performance of their slaves.
Verse 2 Not all Christian
slaves had masters who believed in the *Lord. But those who did were not to
respect them any less because of that. Rather, these slaves should respect
their masters more because they serve the same *Lord. They may know them as
equal persons in the family of God and in the church. But they must perform the
duties of slaves and give the honour due to them as masters.
They must not make the
beliefs that they hold in common an excuse for poor service. Instead, they
should work harder and serve better. In this way, they would benefit those who
were their brothers and sisters in Christ.
The love of God for both
slaves and masters has made them as one in his family. They must then love each
other. So, the slaves should love their Christian masters and do their best for
them.
Timothy must teach these
things to the church members. He must urge all who are slaves to give good
service to their masters. They should see this as a duty given to them by the
*Lord.
More about false teachers (6:3-5)
v3 Someone may teach that which does not agree with
the true words of the *Lord Jesus Christ. What he or she teaches does not help
people to please God. v4 People who teach such things are proud. And
they do not understand the truth. They have sick minds. So, they want to argue
and quarrel about the meanings of words. They cause *envy, spite, unkind words
and evil doubts. v5 These people quarrel all the time. They have so
damaged their minds that they cannot find the truth. They think that they will
be rich if they try to please God.
Verse 3 Paul comes back to
the subject of false teachers. These teachers do not agree with what Paul
taught. They teach their own ideas as the truth. But what they teach is
different from what the *Lord Jesus taught. They do not agree with what is
correct. What they say does not lead people to obey and serve God.
Verses 4-5 The false teachers
are vain. They think that they are superior. And they think that they can know
the truth by using their own minds. But it is the *Lord who shows us what is
true. So, by their own efforts, they are not able to understand the truth. They
claim to know what is right. But they have no knowledge of the truth.
They always want to discuss
things that do not help people to believe in the *Lord. They ask questions. And
they cause doubts about what the *Lord and the *apostles have taught as the
truth. They like to argue about the meaning of words. They waste time on things
that do not really matter. They do nothing to spread the good news of the
*gospel.
Paul lists five things that
result from their arguments. These are *envy, spite, bad words, doubts and
quarrels.
What they say and do leads
people to *envy each other. They want to have what someone else has. When they
cannot have it, they are jealous.
By their arguments, they
destroy the unity that there should be in the church. Instead of *peace there
was spite among the members.
Those who accepted what was
false said wicked things. They said wicked things about those who did not agree
with them.
Where there should be trust
between the members there were evil doubts.
Then there were constant
quarrels.
They have ruined their minds
because they refused the truth. They think that they will gain by their
religion. But they are wrong. They may get money or fame but there is no real
gain in false religion.
Dangers of wealth (6:6-10)
v6 But those who please God are rich. They are rich
even if they do not have much money. They are rich if they are content with
what they have. v7 This is because we came into the world with nothing
and we can take nothing out of it. v8 So then, if we have food and
clothes, that should satisfy us. v9 There are those who want to get
rich. But that tempts them to do all sorts of evil. It catches them in a trap
of strong and foolish desires that will hurt them. These desires will pull them
down into ruin and destroy them. v10 It will destroy them because the
love of money is a source of all kinds of evil. Some people have been so eager
to have it that they have wandered away from the *faith. This has caused them a
lot of pain.
Verse 6 True religion brings
much gain. This may not be in this life but certainly will be in the life to
come. We should please God and be content with what we have. Then we will
receive a rich reward.
Verses 7-8 When a child is
born, it brings nothing with it. Neither can we take anything out of the world
with us when we die. We will have to leave behind all that we possess. All the
wealth that a person can get will be of no benefit, in the end. Nothing that we
own can add anything to us. Death will strip all those things from us and leave
us naked. Then only that which God gives will be of value. He gives it to those
who believe in him
So then, we should be content
with the things that are necessary for life. We should only want to have the
food and the clothes that we need. That should be enough for us.
Verse 9 There are many dangers
for those who want to be rich. When they want to gain wealth, their desires
tempt them to do wrong things. Once they start doing those things, it is like
falling into a trap. It is easier to do worse things than to break free from
this trap. It is as if the devil has caught that person. And he will not let
go. This trap consists of strong desires that seem to force that person to do
more evil.
Those who want to be rich and
make that their purpose in life will never be content. They will never have enough.
And what they get will not satisfy them. Such desires are foolish and they will
cause hurt and ruin in the end.
Paul speaks about ruin as if
it were like the sea or a river. These desires drag people down beneath the
surface and there they drown. The desire to be rich will ruin and destroy them.
Verse 10 The love of money is
the strong desire to get wealth. It is greater than the desire to love and
serve God. It becomes the main purpose in life. That love is like a root. It is
like the root from which plants grow. From that source, there come all kinds of
evil.
There are people who, because
of their desire to get money, have gone away from the *faith. It is not
possible to serve both God and money. One or other of them must be the more
important. Those who reach out to grasp money will lose their grip on the
*Lord.
These who had loved money did
themselves much damage. It is as if they had pushed a sword through their own
hearts and minds. As a result, they will suffer much trouble and pain. They
will suffer when they realise what they have done.
Instructions to Timothy (6:11-16)
v11 But you are a man of God. So you must avoid
doing all these evil things. You must make it your purpose to please God and to
do all that he wants you to do. You need to be firm in what you believe. And
you must love God and other people. Never give up but be patient and gentle at
all times. v12 As you trust in Christ, life will be a struggle. It will
be a struggle in which you must fight. Take hold on the life that has no end.
God has promised that life to you. He made that promise to you when you first
confessed that you believed in Christ. Many people there heard you when you
said it. v13 I am giving you these commands. God, who gives life to all
things, is here with us. And Jesus Christ, who confessed his trust in God
before Pontius Pilate, is here with us too. It is to them that you must answer.
v14 You must keep the command without fault or blame until our *Lord
Jesus Christ appears. v15 God will bring this about in his own time. We
praise him because he is the only true ruler, *Lord and king of all. v16
God is the only one who has in him life with no beginning and no end. He lives
in such a bright light that no one can approach him. No one has ever seen him
and no one can ever see him. To him be all honour and power for all time and
without end. *Amen.
Verse 11 In contrast to the
false teachers, Timothy is a man of God. God chose him to be his agent in that
church. He is God?s man for the task to which God had appointed him. As a man
of God, he must avoid all the evil things about which Paul has just been
writing. He does not just warn Timothy against these *sins. Timothy must pursue
what is good and right. Paul insists on that. What he says to Timothy applies
to all Christians.
Paul lists six good qualities
that Christians should try to have. These are:
· They must always do what is good and right.
· They should live to please God.
· They should believe in and trust the *Lord at all times.
· They ought to love God and other people.
· They must be patient and strong. And they must have a good attitude
through all the problems that come to them.
· They should be gentle. When people do bad things to them, they must never
do bad things in return. Some people may accuse them wrongly. And some people
may insult them but they must not reply in the same way. They should try to do
good things even to those who hate them.
Verse 12 To live for Christ
in this world can be a struggle. And it often is. Timothy must be willing to
suffer for the *gospel of Christ. Many opposed him. And they were doing all
that they could to stop the spread of the *gospel. The man or woman of God must
fight, not with swords or guns but by trusting in the *Lord and with prayer.
This is because the real enemies are not men and women. They are the devils and
the evil things that *Satan sends against us.
Paul tells Timothy to fight a
good fight. The struggle is good because it is for God and the *gospel. The
good news will spread in this evil world by this means. It is by trust in God
that Timothy can continue in the struggle. So it is a fight of *faith.
God had appointed him to this
task. He had given to him that life which has no end. Timothy must take a firm
hold on that life. He must make it a present reality and not just a hope for
the future. (See 1:16.)
God has promised to give the
life that has no end. He has promised to give it to those who believe in the
*Lord Jesus. Timothy claimed that promise when he first trusted in the *Lord.
Now Paul reminds him about this. There were many there when Timothy confessed
that he trusted in the *Lord.
Verse 13 As an *apostle of
the *Lord, Paul has told Timothy how he should live. Paul is conscious that God
and the *Lord Jesus are here with us. Timothy should obey what Paul orders him
to do. But God and the *Lord Jesus will be the judges of what he does. Timothy
is responsible to them and he must give an account of his life to them. The
same is true of all Christians.
God gives life to all things.
He is the source of all life. He gives the life that has no end. He gives it to
those who believe in the *Lord Jesus. All living things will have to give an
account of their lives to him.
Pontius Pilate was the *Roman
ruler in the city of Jerusalem. When he asked the *Lord Jesus questions, he
gave a good answer. Pilate asked him if he was the king of the *Jews (Matthew
27:11; Mark 15:2; Luke 23:3; John 18:33-37). Jesus agreed that he was a king.
But he said that his *kingdom was not of this world. Pilate could find nothing
wrong in Jesus and wanted to set him free. He did not do it but he wrote over
the cross ?Jesus of Nazareth the king of the *Jews? (John 19:19).
Jesus did all that God had
sent him to do. And, because of that, he suffered and died on the cross.
Timothy should obey God as he did. And so should all who believe in the *Lord
Jesus. They may have to suffer and even die for this. But they must be true to
the *faith that they confess. One day, they will have to give an account to the
*Lord Jesus. God has made him to be the judge of all people.
Verse 14 Timothy has to obey
a command. The command is all that the *Lord has told him to do. This has come
in the instructions that Paul and the *elders gave to him. Paul has shown him
in this letter what the command means. It is to keep and obey all that Jesus
and the *apostles taught. It is to be and to do all that the *Lord requires.
This is not just for Timothy but it should be the aim of all Christians.
The *Lord Jesus will one day
come again. Then he will take up those Christians who are alive on the earth to
be with him. And he will take up those Christians who have died. Until then,
Timothy must do what the *Lord orders. And so must all who believe in the
*Lord. We all fail. But as we ask the *Lord to forgive us he will do it. He
will clear us from all wrong-doing and blame. When he comes we must all give an
account to him. We must all give an account of all that we have done.
Verse 15 God has planned the
moment when his son, Jesus, will return. And he will control that moment. The
*Lord Jesus will come as the champion for all who believe in him. He will
defeat all that is against us. All the struggles of this life will be over.
God has in himself all
blessing. He blesses his people who in turn bless and praise him.
God is the real and absolute
ruler of all. He is the